An anonymous UK PhD writes in:
Its coming up to two years this February since I finished my doctorate. In that time i've applied for lots of postdocs/associate profs etc. Nearly all of these job applications required letters of reference (usually just two, sometimes three). Now, recently I asked, politely as always, for one of my references (who was the external examiner for my PhD), to once again write a reference. On the one hand I always feel slightly bad about this, since i'm asking them to do something for me which they strictly don't have to and which is a burden. On the other hand, at this stage how else is one to get references (I have sourced others but this particular individual is a 'go to' reference), and surely they should just be using pretty much the same reference each time with a few tweaks. On asking again for the reference I got quite a rude email (by academic standards), in which the ref said something to the tune of "I've never had to write so many references for anyone in my life" (and it wasn't intended as a joke, it was quite harsh in tone). Now i don't just apply for any jobs, like most people on the market I pick and choose carefully, but nonetheless apply widely within reason. I was wondering what readers at the Cocoon made of this response, and what attitude one should to take towards it. Even if the individual has had to write 30+ references (really that should mean send to an email or server 30+ reference statements which are very similar if not identical) surely its just a hazard of the profession, given the market, that if you agree to do refs for someone you will end up doing a job lot of them. Is there a point at which you should stop using a reference like this, i.e. someone external to you (so not a supervisor etc) given a certain amount of times you have used them? If so whats the cut off? Any thoughts from other early career people at the Cocoon on this would be helpful.
I'm curious to hear what other readers think, but here are some of my thoughts…
From the sound of things, it appears this reader has been asking their letter-writer to update their letter for each individual job. If this is what has happened, it does seem to me decidedly non-standard (and onerous). Do other people ask their letter writers to tailor letters to each job? I didn't: I just assumed that would be too much to ask. Instead, my letter writers all just wrote generic letters, I asked them upload their letters (once) to Interfolio, and then had Interfolio send the letters to each job I applied to. Obviously, this asks far less from one's letter writers!
Anyway, that being said, what should the person do given the situation they are presently in?
I had a somewhat similar situation a number of years ago. I had been on the market for several years, and approached one of my letter writers to see if they would be willing to update his letter. I was surprised when the person wrote back saying they weren't willing to do it, saying they hadn't kept up with my work and weren't sure their letter would help me anyway. Because I always thought I'd never much impressed the person to begin with, I decided to head out on the market again without their letter…and it was my only year on the market with no interviews. The next year I approached the person again, asking if they would be willing to simply let me use their old letter. They did, and the next several years I ended up getting a bunch of interviews. (I later found out through the grapevine that their letter was much more positive than I imagined!)
Long story short, my (admittedly anecdotal) experience is that insofar as one can probably use all the help one can get on the job-market, it is probably a good idea to keep on good terms with one's letter writers, mend fences if possible, and continue to use their letter as long as one has reasonable grounds for believing it's a good letter (it is often possible to get one's letters vetted by one's PhD program placement director, provided the letter writer is willing to forward it to them). In the current case, I guess I would suggest the person politely apologize for asking for so many references and propose to their letter-writer to upload a single letter to Interfolio. I have to imagine that if they have had a good relationship in the past, the person would be likely to respond positively to this.
But these are just my thoughts. What do you all think?
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